When You’re Torn Between Holding On and Letting Go

Discernment Counseling & Coaching gives you space to pause, reflect, and look honestly—without pressure, blame, or quick fixes.

It’s designed for couples who are on the brink, where one partner is leaning out of the marriage and the other is leaning in, still hoping for change. Rather than jumping into traditional couples therapy (which assumes both partners want to work on the relationship), this process helps you slow down and gain clarity about your next step.

The goal isn’t to fix your marriage.

It’s to help you both understand what has happened, why it happened, and whether it can be repaired.

You’ll explore:

• How each of you has contributed to where things are now
• What patterns or pain points keep repeating
• What each of you truly wants moving forward

This process is done through both individual sessions and joint sessions, which allows for honesty, safety, and perspective—without forcing agreement.

With Discernment Counseling & Coaching, there is no agenda to stay or to leave.

Our role is to guide you toward clarity, confidence, and compassion, whichever direction you choose.

There are three possible paths:

1. Status Quo: No immediate decisions, just space to breathe and reflect
2. Separation or Divorce: Moving forward with clarity and peace instead of guilt or confusion
3. Commitment to Reconciliation: Choosing to pursue couples therapy or an intensive to repair and rebuild

As a counseling and coaching team, we provide a grounded, emotionally safe space for honest exploration.

We help you:

• Name what’s real, without shame or pressure
• Understand what went wrong and what still matters
• See your own patterns with compassion and truth
• Clarify whether your marriage can heal—or whether it’s time to release it with grace

Discernment Counseling & Coaching is offered in 90-minute sessions.

Because this is a short-term and highly focused process, we recommend meeting weekly until clarity is reached.

• Initial 90-minute session: $300
• Individual Sessions (within first 2 weeks):  $240 each
• Ongoing sessions (as needed): $300

You don’t have to keep living in emotional limbo.

Discernment Counseling & Coaching can help you find your footing—whether that means renewing your commitment to your marriage or moving forward with peace and integrity.

The only failure in discernment counseling and coaching is leaving unchanged. Every outcome can lead to growth, understanding, and freedom.

You don’t have to make this decision alone.